Traumadater

Is This Your Dating Style?

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THE POLITICIAN
Strength: Self-aware, reads what people want
Weakness: Fears authentic self isn't enough
Relationship Area: Role

πŸ“ΊThe Politician

Learning that parts of your personality weren't acceptable to your family taught you to become acutely conscious of your image and how other people see you. You developed a remarkable capacity for self-awareness - instinctively sensing which version of yourself would be most acceptable, desirable, or safe in any given moment. Your skill at reading what people want and delivering it flawlessly has opened doors and created opportunities that others miss ✨.

But the facade doesn't always holdβ€”and you know it. Sometimes you meet people who see right through the carefully constructed performance and discover that underneath all the status signals and first-impression management, you're not actually the person you've been broadcasting yourself to be 🎭. The anxiety is suffocating: what happens when they realize the real you doesn't match the polished exterior? You're caught between the exhausting work of maintaining an impossible standard and the crushing fear that your authentic self isn't good enough.

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