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        💔&nbsp; What it means to have grown up with divorced parents
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        <strong>Did watching your parents' marriage fall apart teach you that even the strongest relationships can end without warning? Do you find yourself waiting for your current relationships to fail or looking for signs that someone is about to leave you suddenly?</strong>
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        Does this sound familiar?
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        💎 After your parents divorced, your family broke into pieces, and you had to figure out how to exist in two separate worlds.<br><br>
        💎 You felt caught in the middle of adult conflicts, caring for everyone's feelings while your own got lost in the shuffle.<br><br>
        💎 These days, you keep one foot out the door in relationships—because "forever" always ends.
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        You may have learned to become a social chameleon, developing different versions of yourself depending on which parent's house you were visiting. Your family broke into pieces, and you had to figure out how to exist in two separate worlds, often feeling caught in the middle of adult conflicts while caring for everyone's feelings except your own. You might have developed exceptional skills at reading emotional climates and managing complex relationship dynamics.
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        You may have witnessed your parents' relationship collapse, leaving you with a heightened awareness of cracks in your own relationships—constantly bracing for the inevitable moment when "forever" turns into "go to hell!" Your young heart learned that love comes with expiration dates, making you either avoid commitment entirely or test relationships to see if they'll survive your worst moments. The idea of being authentically yourself with just one person feels foreign when your survival depended on being different people for different parents.
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        💔&nbsp; The Core Wound
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        "You learned that even the most wonderful love can shatter without warning, and that you must keep one foot out the door because 'forever' always ends. Your heart struggles to know who you really are when your survival depended on being different versions of yourself for different parents."
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Tools & Learning

💔9 Ways Divorced Parents Trauma Affects Your Relationships

Come Here, Go Away

Expecting Everyone to Leave

Going to the Opposite Extreme

Guarding Against Heartbreak

Hypnotized to Believe You're Damaged Goods

Loving and Hating Intensely

The Accommodator

The Chameleon

The Triangles Expert