🍽️8-Question Hunger Quiz: What's Your Trauma Dating Style?

In your household, there was never enough money for the basics, let alone extras that other kids took for granted.

There was no real physical intimacy between parents in your house—people just played their part.

You mastered invisibility—hiding hand-me-down shame, laughing off empty fridge jokes, pretending you chose this.

Money was always disappearing, making every purchase or birthday present feel risky.

As a child, your parents made you feel only as good as your last accomplishment—past successes didn't count.

You hated your family's patterns, but feared you'd become just like them anyway.

Asking for things directly was often met with 'not now' or 'later' that never came.

You had to compete with your siblings for limited attention/resources.