💔9-Question Parent With Frequent/Multiple Romantic Partners In The Home Quiz: What's Your Trauma Dating Style?

As a child, you saw and heard things about sex that kids shouldn't be exposed to, forcing you to make sense of adult matters before you were ready.

Adult sexual stuff got mixed into your childhood before you understood it.

Intimacy was transactional in your household—adults did what suited them, not out of love.

Your earliest lessons about physical intimacy between adults got very confusing.

Your mind learned to wonder and leave your body during the abuse.

You were often unfairly treated by your parents or siblings—like all problems were your fault.

There was no real physical intimacy between parents in your house—people just played their part.

Those early experiences left you feeling either uncomfortably aware of sexual undertones or completely turned off by them.

Sometimes you'd just shut down and space out—unable to fight or flee, like a deer in the headlights.