💔14-Question Parental Favoritism Toward Other Siblings Quiz: What's Your Trauma Dating Style?

You grew up as the "other" child—measuring yourself against a sibling who seemed to effortlessly receive the love and attention you craved.

You witnessed how hurtful people could be and vowed never to be like them.

You were often unfairly treated by your parents or siblings—like all problems were your fault.

In your family, different rules and expectations applied to you versus your siblings, creating a confusing double standard that felt impossible to question.

Growing up, you learned to watch your siblings to understand what earned parental approval, trying to copy or differentiate yourself accordingly.

Your worth was always measured against others, never your own.

You either competed fiercely for scraps of attention or gave up completely.

You believed your parents loved the other siblings more than you.

You learned early that keeping everyone else happy was more important than what you wanted.

Growing up, you automatically put aside your own needs whenever someone else seemed upset or uncomfortable.

You hated your family's patterns, but feared you'd become just like them anyway.

Your siblings seemed to get what they needed more easily, so you had to find different strategies to get noticed.

You had to work through one parent to get to the other, or play adults or other siblings against each other to get what you needed.

You had to compete with your siblings for limited attention/resources.