School wasn't just challenging for you—it was a minefield where your nervous system learned to stay perpetually switched on 🎚️. The unpredictable landscape of `intermittent peer approval and rejection` and classroom humiliation taught you to develop very perceptive *social scanning*, turning you into an expert at detecting the subtlest shifts in attitudes toward you before insults flew. This exceptional emotional intelligence became your superpower, allowing you to navigate hostile environments and protect you from sudden attacks. Your ability to read micro-expressions, sense non-verbal cues, and adapt your behavior in real-time is genuinely remarkable—most people move through the world missing 90% of what you naturally pick up on. But now your threat detection system never gets to rest, treating all social connections－like a potential minefield 💣 even when you're actually safe, leaving you exhausted from scanning for dangers that may not even exist.

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