👥6-Question Raised By Older Siblings Quiz
Check what feels familiar:
Your "parents" were children themselves—older siblings who cooked meals they could barely reach to make, signed school forms in crayon, and hid their own terror when you cried at night.
As a child, you learned to mute your needs to the volume your sibling could handle. Normal childhood noises (tantrums, laughter, play noises) weren't in your contract.
You depended on your siblings instead of adults for care, leaving you torn between gratitude and resentment.
As a child, you confused love with indebtedness—feeling forever obliged to people who 'saved' you, even when their care came with conditions.
Your siblings only had time for you when you weren't being difficult.
In your family, chaos felt more normal than unknown peace.