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Showing 27 trauma dating patterns filtered by category
The Accommodator: From Neglected as Child to People Pleasing in Relationships
emotional neglect traumalove as transaction wiringpeople-pleasing
The Accommodator-Fighter
The Also Ran
The Caregiver: When taking care of your partner feels like being loved
The Chameleon
The Empath
The Fire Extinguisher
The Gas Leak Detector: From Gaslighting Parents to Reality Bending Relationships
gaslighting parentreality distortion traumaconstant self-doubt
Going to the Opposite Extreme
oppositional wiringgenerational traumapendulum swing
The Hero
The High Achiever
The Invisible Child
Lost in Boundaries: From Narcissistic Parents to Codependent Adult
identity blur traumaboundary confusionself-lossnarcissist magnet
The Love Earner
The Mirror: From Golden Child to People-Pleasing Adult Relationships
family identity traumaapproval addictionlove through usefulness
No Playbook for Dating: From Unpredictable Parents to Chaotic Partners
disorganized attachment traumahot-cold lovemake-up sex addiction
The Passenger: From Controlled Child to Dependent Partner
parental control traumalearned helplessnessdependency wiring
The Peacemaker
The Performer: From Perfectionist Parents to Relationship Performance
perfection traumaperformance wiringauthenticity fear
The Politician: When being seen feels like being exposed
perfection-shame traumafalse self addictionapproval chasing
The Rescuer
The Secrets Keeper: When silence feels safer than truth
family secrets traumaexposure panicreal connection hunger
Sex as a Movie
Sex as a Transaction
The Stoic: From Emotionally Neglected Child to Feelings Avoidant Partner
feelings punishment traumanumbness wiringsilent suffering
The Triangles Expert
The Vanishing Act
self-erasure woundconflict avoidanceinvisible child