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Step 1: Find Traumaβ€ΊStep 2: Match Dating Styles
1: Find Traumaβ€Ί2 Match Dating Styles

10 Relationship Patterns From Growing Up with Emotionally Distant Or Unavailable Parent

Explore how emotionally distant or unavailable parent childhood experiences can impact your relationships. Each style represents common patterns that develop as protective responses to early life challenges.

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Acting Out for Love πŸ’ƒπŸ»

When Having Full Attention Is The Only Way to Be Loved

2

Braced for Independence πŸ’ͺ

3

Come Here, Go Away 🌊

When love feels real only when it hurts

4

Going to the Opposite Extreme ↔️

5

Loving and Hating Intensely πŸ’“

6

Same Dance, Different Partners πŸ’ƒπŸ•Ί

When chasing unavailable love feels like home

7

Sex as a Movie 🎬

8

The Accommodator πŸ‘

When putting others first feels like the only way to be loved

9

The Rescuer 🩹

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The Stoic πŸͺ¨

When feeling nothing feels safer than feeling too much