🧮 Always Doing The Math
Related Childhood Experiences
People with this dating style often experienced these childhood situations:
Child neglectChronic parental absence due to workEducational neglectEmotional neglectExtended family interference/conflictFamily with rigid roles and no tolerance for autonomyLack of medical careLong-distance deployed parentMulti-generational household issuesNeglectful parentOther family members living together with youParent estranged, cut-off from their parents, family, siblingsParent with conflicts with both sides of the familyParent with conflicts with their side of the familyParental neglectParents with conflicting work schedulesWork-addicted parent
Related Dating Styles
Other patterns that often appear alongside Always Doing The Math:
💃🏻Acting Out for Love
When Having Full Attention Is The Only Way to Be Loved
parental attention traumacrisis bondingattention fights
💪Braced for Independence
🌊Come Here, Go Away
When love feels real only when it hurts
ambivalent attachment traumapush-pullemotional intensity
✋Guarding Against Heartbreak
🦶Keeping One Foot Out the Door
💓Loving and Hating Intensely
🔥Loyal to Your Abusers
When defending your abuser feels like love
love-pain wiringtrauma bondsbetrayal loops
🔥❄️No Playbook for Dating
When Unpredictability Feels Like Home
disorganized attachment traumahot-cold lovemake-up sex addiction
💃🕺Same Dance, Different Partners
When chasing unavailable love feels like home
conditional love traumaabandonment triggersemotional whiplash
💫Whiplashed in Relationships
🧠Wired for Crisis