What childhood experiences lead to The Also Ran?

People with The Also Ran dating style often experienced: Alcohol and or drug addicted parent, Drug abuse in the family

How does childhood trauma create The Also Ran patterns?

The Also Ran develops as an adaptive response to specific childhood experiences, helping individuals cope with difficult family dynamics.

People with this dating style often experienced these childhood situations:

Other patterns that often appear alongside The Also Ran:

When putting others first feels like the only way to be loved

When taking care of your partner feels like being loved

When Relationship Becomes Your Problem to Solve

When You're a Master at Meeting Others' Needs

When going along for the ride is the only option

When Opening Up Feels Dangerous

When being seen feels like being exposed

When feeling nothing feels safer than feeling too much