15 Relationship Patterns Associated With Conditional Love Childhood Trauma
Explore how conditional love can impact your relationships. Each style represents relational patterns that may develop as protective responses to early life challenges.
Come Here, Go Away: From Hot-and-Cold Parents to Push-Pull Relationships
ambivalent attachment traumapush-pullemotional intensity
Lost in Boundaries: From Narcissistic Parents to Codependent Adult
identity blur traumaboundary confusionself-lossnarcissist magnet
Loving and Hating Intensely
No Playbook for Dating: From Unpredictable Parents to Chaotic Partners
disorganized attachment traumahot-cold lovemake-up sex addiction
Same Dance, Different Partners: From Inconsistent Parents to Chasing Unavailable Partners
conditional love traumaabandonment triggersemotional whiplash
Sex as a Movie
The Accommodator: From Neglectful Parents to People Pleasing in Relationships
emotional neglect traumalove as transaction wiringpeople-pleasing
The Advocate
The Citadel: From Shaming Parents to Anxious Partners
status anxietyhypersensitivity to slightsrelationship mathemotional withdrawal
The Lightning Rod: From Problem Child to Relationship Fixer Adult
scapegoat traumafault wiringfixer love
The Mirror: From Golden Child to People-Pleasing Adult
family identity traumaapproval addictionlove through usefulness
The Radar Always On: From Toxic Parents to Hypervigilant Relationships
emotional whiplash traumathreat detection wiringexpecting rejection
The Rebel
oppositional wiringgenerational traumapendulum swing