💓 Loving and Hating Intensely
Related Childhood Experiences
People with this dating style often experienced these childhood situations:
Abusive parentAlcohol abuse in the familyAlcohol and or drug addicted parentAngry parentAuthoritarian parent or family memberBeing an orphanChild custody battlesChronic abuseChronic manipulationControlling parentCritical parentDeath of a parent or siblingDepressed parentDisciplinarian parentDivorced parentsDrug abuse in the familyDysfunctional familyEmotional abuseEmotional neglectEmotionally distant or unavailable parent
Related Dating Styles
Other patterns that often appear alongside Loving and Hating Intensely:
💃🏻Acting Out for Love
When Having Full Attention Is The Only Way to Be Loved
parental attention traumacrisis bondingattention fights
🧮Always Doing The Math
💪Braced for Independence
🌊Come Here, Go Away
When love feels real only when it hurts
ambivalent attachment traumapush-pullemotional intensity
✋Guarding Against Heartbreak
🦶Keeping One Foot Out the Door
🔥Loyal to Your Abusers
When defending your abuser feels like love
love-pain wiringtrauma bondsbetrayal loops
🔥❄️No Playbook for Dating
When Unpredictability Feels Like Home
disorganized attachment traumahot-cold lovemake-up sex addiction
💃🕺Same Dance, Different Partners
When chasing unavailable love feels like home
conditional love traumaabandonment triggersemotional whiplash
💫Whiplashed in Relationships
🧠Wired for Crisis