๐ช Braced for Independence
Related Childhood Experiences
People with this dating style often experienced these childhood situations:
Alcohol and or drug addicted parentChronic illness or disability in the familyChronic parental absence due to workDrug abuse in the familyEmotional neglectEmotionally distant or unavailable parentIndifferent parentLack of loveLong-distance deployed parentNeedy parentNo safe adult to turn to for emotional supportOne parent frequently absentParent constantly in trouble with the lawParent in jail, serving prison sentenceParent involved in illegal or criminal activitiesParent working long hours/multiple jobsParental abandonmentParental alienationParental emotional unavailabilityParents with conflicting work schedules
Related Dating Styles
Other patterns that often appear alongside Braced for Independence:
๐๐ปActing Out for Love
When Having Full Attention Is The Only Way to Be Loved
parental attention traumacrisis bondingattention fights
๐งฎAlways Doing The Math
๐Come Here, Go Away
When love feels real only when it hurts
ambivalent attachment traumapush-pullemotional intensity
โGuarding Against Heartbreak
๐ฆถKeeping One Foot Out the Door
๐Loving and Hating Intensely
๐ฅLoyal to Your Abusers
When defending your abuser feels like love
love-pain wiringtrauma bondsbetrayal loops
๐ฅโ๏ธNo Playbook for Dating
When Unpredictability Feels Like Home
disorganized attachment traumahot-cold lovemake-up sex addiction
๐๐บSame Dance, Different Partners
When chasing unavailable love feels like home
conditional love traumaabandonment triggersemotional whiplash
๐ซWhiplashed in Relationships
๐ง Wired for Crisis